Winning an argument can be a great feeling, but it’s even better when you can get your point across while not having your opponent feel like they have been beaten, broken, or lost out. Winning is best when it is win/win for both parties. Is that even possible? Absolutely! Your Inner Resistance Monster wants you to believe that in order for one person to win, the other has to lose, but this is not always the case. The good news is that this diplomacy skill can be learned so that you become better at creating win/win situations. The better I got at being diplomatic, the better my people skills got and the better all my relationships became; personal, work, online, or even dealing with bill collectors. Here’s some tips to help you with diplomacy: The best state of mind to go [+]

It doesn't need a genius to make good grade at class, you just have to be diligent and take your best effort on studying, here are few tips to help you manage your study: Prepare a designated notebook for each subject, or you can just use one notebook, but remember not to mix them up, separate them properly. Every time you finish a chapter in class, make a summary about it, and don't forget to write the key point of what you learned. Review them once a week, just use the summary and key point, you only need to read from the notebook if you forget about something. Create a mind maps, with image and graphics, this will help you review your lesson faster. If you have time , try to get more information about a topic from the internet, library, and take a note [+]

As we all know smoking is bad for health, not only for the smoker but also for the people around him/her. beside that the smoke generated from the smoker is really annoying for the non-smoker. And when someone become a heavy smoker, its really hard to stop this bad habit, but it's still possible, here's a few tips on how to quit smoking. Although its not full-proof tricks but it can help you to show the steps on how to start your "quit smoking" program. First you need to have a strong will and determination to quit smoking. without it all of the next steps would be useless. Set when your program should start, and when it should end. note that when the program is end, you must be already quit your smoking habit, try to set a reasonable program (ex: a 40 [+]

Spot these tips are from Herbert Gordon, It’s about how to recover from your down-state, it’s a good idea to read and understand these tips, since we never know when we’re going to need it. "Identify what you can control and what you can’t" Now I want you to make two list of things or inventory about the things that you can control, and what you can NOT control, this “things/inventory” is anything that supposed or able to help you to achieve your goals. You should be aware by now that most of “cause” is controllable, and most of result are uncontrollable. For example, you can train as hard as you can on to be the best at sport you liked, or you are able to do a very good marketing projection on the future. These are all in your control, you take the [+]

As we know our brains control almost all of our action in life, from moving, seeing, listening to reasoning and thinking. But with our daily activity this kind of activity become more and more automated as we start to get used to it, and if we are not careful we will end up not using our brain much, just like the rats put in the second cage in Diamond experiment. To actively improve our brain we should always use our brain, like learn more, as it will create more connections between brain cells, even if we don't practice the skill for decades the connections will still exist, maybe weakened a bit but not gone. There are a few tips to how to improve our brain performance which I collected from several source over book and internet: 1. Do a body exercise, you would [+]